find happiness

"When I stood on the surface of the water, took ropes, duplicates and speed, I was happy want to cry out, I've never thought of water skiing is so happy!!!!!"

A friend told me, eyes still flashing lights, in his 30 DuoNian life, this one found, is better than a gold also called found people happy, "because I found himself and found himself endowment potential, find new fun......"

I think in the life of many, found that can bring the joy of similar, like a baby's first word phrase, new society of a song, or just learn skills...... This a kind by internal wish and into the exciting, it is the human nature is!!!!!

Swiss psychologist RongShi had the human heart to explore and discover called the process of personal growth. However all tangible or intangible achievements, they must first by the heart and the will of the organization to begin. If a person is barren, heart has no clue, nature can't accomplish anything. Toynbee once said: 'individual inner development, through a stranger's action, just caused the growth of human society. "This is so.

Found for the inner self, and development of the self, is a personality inner growth process. Children because the mind is not yet, must from growing in praise of the close and sure, to be encouraged. Others praise and criticism, all is the external factors, we can't always rely on external evaluation to understand yourself, only their explore, discover to close to the real self. A growing, more can understand his own strengths and weaknesses, The more won't be outside disturbance, also can understand the inner world, and can control your joy. From the childish dependent psychology, the mind can mature happy.

Writing for the people, the most can feel is the creation of happiness, in the creation process, how much of meditation and suffering through the spirit, the arrangement of the present, and make the crystallization. Works of art and literature creation as, there is FuZhiXinLing's bestseller, also have barely add up to failure, to the weeds refinement, but from continuous exploration and efforts to get in, and their first enjoy this often happy. Others praise. Criticism, but is the image of the external, really know their advantages and disadvantages, or himself. Can cast away and keep failing is growing up an original. In pursuit of understanding human mellow approach, will also there will be many disappointed, not happy, is behind the source of happiness. Can cast away some negative. Negative feelings, to have the space to accept the new findings. The great secret of happiness is, "do what you love to do, and not to follow other people, imitate others"

Found that increasingly find themselves inner world, can also with their own inner dialogue communication. Good to their shortcomings, let oneself have the opportunity to have the space to admit more chance, to understand her inner needs, this feeling, to turn into action, a fact that heart full happy.